Just thoughts.

The feeling of experiencing a heartbreak is never good.
But being girls, we find ourselves compelled to go over and over memories, ideas or fantasies which make the feeling worse. Good memories are so nice to reminisce and each time, it's those flashbacks that set the smiles on your face. But at the end of the day, you have to convince yourself that it's all over. Maybe this's just a part of growing up and it'll make you stronger in time to come. Maybe this is just girls. No guys can promise they'll never hurt you because at one time or another, it will happen.
Whether one is experiencing to get over a guy or in the midst of her happy r/s, still, to them, those fond memories were the best part of their lives. But sadly, it's not going to replay again.

Some people define friendships differently as we do.
But you can't expect people to treat you as no. 1 wherever you go.
You dont throw your friend aside for another and treat them as spare tyres.
If you want them to treat you as important as how they do to others, you better get your definition of a friend correct before having the right to say what makes a good friend and what makes a bad one.